self-effacing

adjective

self-ef·​fac·​ing ˌself-i-ˈfā-siŋ How to pronounce self-effacing (audio)
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: having or showing a tendency to make oneself modestly or shyly inconspicuous
His passions and faith run soul-deep, his gentle wit is always self-effacing and never insulting …Don Gaetz
… she was an extremely self-effacing, private person who never sought the limelight and did not leave the usual artifacts that enable a biographer to reconstruct life patterns.Douglas R. McManis

Examples of self-effacing in a Sentence

he's dating a sweet, self-effacing girl
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But behind the self-effacing demeanor, allies of Ms. Wiles said, is a woman who can wield a scalpel. Elisabeth Bumiller, New York Times, 9 Jan. 2025 The outward-facing woman was self-effacing and gracious and vivacious, a compassionate listener. Rachel Aviv, The New Yorker, 23 Dec. 2024 The self-effacing Tunney wasn’t incognito to a lot of his students. Sam Farmer, Los Angeles Times, 15 Dec. 2024 Cher is a bracing read, peppered with caustic quips and self-effacing anecdotes, but fundamentally frank. Sophie Gilbert, The Atlantic, 21 Nov. 2024 See all Example Sentences for self-effacing 

Word History

First Known Use

1854, in the meaning defined above

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The first known use of self-effacing was in 1854

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“Self-effacing.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/self-effacing. Accessed 18 Jan. 2025.

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